At this point in time, I don't have very many friends.. I know, it's the sad truth..
Many people are merely acquaintances.. People who step in and out of your life... How many people actually care about what's happening in your life? I know I sound very cynical, but it is the harsh truth..
I think I get very close to people when I live with them, yet I choose not to live with my friends.. There's a very fine line between that.. Let's talk about that instead..
My logic is that if you live with friends, there are chances that you will nitpick at their flaws and then things turn into a terrible catfight as you have less tolerance for people whom you harbour more expectations on..
On the other hand, if you live with people who you don't know, you get to know them on that scale and then since you are facing the same situation (ie. living with someone who is totally a stranger at first), there are more similarities and you know you have to live with the bad habits of others anyway.. So it is more than likely that you get along well with those people..
For me, my housemates and I seem to have a good relationship, we have girl talks, we tell each other problems, we whine at each other for not doing chores, etc.. Now that I don't live with them anymore, I miss our daily banter and chattering.. Here's a picture for you, if you insist on a picture..
3 in a bath tub! :D In a hotel, no less!
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